It’s the same story after every break up. Emotions are going wild, the couple are very angry at each other, and both are hurting very badly as well. The result is, they stop talking to each other for a while. As you can see, your situation is not unique – many people have gone through what you are experiencing right now. If your ex is ignoring you, just leave him/her alone for a while, and your absence will make your ex miss you.
Don’t make any contact with your ex – even if it is to apologize. Your ex is just not interested in what you have to say right now. The last time you said anything to your ex, it was hurtful, nasty things. Your ex is wary of you now, and doesn’t want a repeat performance of the last time you were together.
Try to understand how your ex is feeling and have respect for his/her decision to not speak to you. You are partly to blame for the argument you had, and not speaking to you is your ex’s way of dealing with his/her feelings. Those bad feelings will fade after a while, and the fact that you have not been around, will make your ex miss you.
Don’t spend your days brooding about the time that you and your ex are together again – go out and enjoy your life. After all, you have also been through an unpleasant ordeal, and also need to heal. Just take each day as it comes, and do whatever you feel will make you happy on that particular day.
If you feel lonely and want company, then call up your friends and get together with them. If you are in the mood to do something on your own, then do it. You must be the main focus on your mind right now. Don’t worry about your ex, your ex will also start feeling lonely, and the fact that you’re not there, will make your ex miss you.
After a while, the bad feelings that your ex had toward you will disappear. This is when the realization will hit him/her that he/she still has deep feelings for you. This of course, will make your ex miss you like mad. Your ex has not seen you, or spoken to you for quite some time now. Your ex will start thinking of all the good times you shared together, and will begin to like the idea of having those times back again.